1.
The shock and the despair of the parents. 2.
The reading of the emotions. 3.
Emotional Clearing (EmC). 4. Basic
principles of EmC. 5. Some cases. 6. Contact.
1. The shock and the despair of the parents. There can`t be a bigger catastrophe for
parents than to discover, that their dear and long awaited child is
disabled ! What a shock ! What a
despair ! Every parent wants to have wholly, healthy children ! That`s
the joy of life ! And than, to have a
disabled child, is the biggest shock to them ! I
have been working with these parents, just to discover, that it would
be very, very good, when they get
sessions of Emotional Clearing on those moments, when they heard, saw
or experienced, that their child would not be completely healthy. To free parents from all those guilty
thoughts and all other reactions, that keep on hunting their mind. "What did I do wrong ? How do I deserve this
?"
The
next step would be to get free from the explanations, all those experts
gave about their child. Because these
explanations all have one thing in common: They
defenitely say: "You can`t do anything
to change it. It is a fact. A
biological fact."Now looking at it from the perspective of
Emotional Clearing, that is definitely NOT TRUE. The
disability is NOT only a twist of nature, but of course has mental
causes. And when parents look into the
mind of their child, they find all the answers, that they where longing
for since the birth of that child.
So experts increase the pain and
helplessness in parents by inducing the order: "You can`t do anything !" But looking with Emotional Clearing very
clearly shows, on a mental level, parents can help their children
tremendously.
First
of all, they should understand the nature of disability in their child. And second, in most cases, they can
discover, that it NEVER was their mistake or guilt. This is the biggest relieve, that can happen
to the parents. And with that relieve,
they will start to enjoy and accept their child more and love it with a
more open heart and a more joyful mind. And
that of course is already a lot for the child.
Once parents come to the level of their real
love for their child, they see and feel, that
on that level, they are absolutely NOT helpless. They
can see and understand, what the child needs to grow and progress, and
what it wants from them.
So parents get a real connection on the
level of the heart and mind to their children, and that is not at all
disabled. There is a big exchange of
love, and that is the first thing, what connects parent and child and
helps them to grow.
In many cases, this experience can be that
clear and sound, that they don`t give in to all the treatments, some
"experts" would like to administer onto the child, because it is
helpless and a lot of treatments would bring in a lot of money. The parents very clearly see, what is
beneficial and what not. Now they do
not decide from the level of their guilt and anxiety, they are no
longer at the mercy of a technical thinking doctor, but they understand
and decide for their child on the only true level. Complete love !
2. "Reading" the emotions. There is a little, beautiful tool inside the
sessions of emotional clearing, called:
the " reading" of the emotions. With
that, parents get the ability, to directly communicate to the needs and
the mind of their child. They really
see and understand, what the real cause of his problem, weakness,
disability or desease is. (Yes folks,
that IS posiible now!)
This is the most remarcable tool for the
understanding and discovery of our human psyche. Because
to use and succeed in "reading" the emotions of others, one has not to
become an expert in psychology. Everyone
can do it !
With
these insights, many problems start to melt. parents
no longer need to try certain undercover-wars because of their
underlying guilt or anxiety. They do
not need to project any guilt or cause at anything or anybody outside. A lot of conflicts are solved just with this
insight. Nobody is guilty, it is
nobodys fault ! But you have to make
this insight yourself. It is not
enough, to hear these words from someone from outside. You have to discover this truth yourself !
On advanced
stages of "reading" the emotions, parents directly understand and
support their child mentally. And on
that level, completely new insights and abilities to support and help
the children set in.
With these abilities, very soon we will
undnerstand the nature of autism and other disabilities much better and
find appropriate ways of solving the hidden meaning and causes of these
problems.
Parents
get into the habit, to really connect to the inner being of their
children and to give them that
understanding and love, that they will open up and change a lot of
those problems, that where termed incurable up till now.
3. Emotional Clearing (EmC). Emotional Clearing was developed by the
german pianist and scientist Joerg Dao fro 1981 till 1989. In those years, he was mainly active as a
teacher for meditation and had a lot of time to research consciousness
and the human mind. Since 1990 he is
training people to apply EmC in special sessions. People
are doctors, health-practicionors, therapeuts, consultants, housewives,
students, and even retired people.
To learn Emotional Clearing, one should
attend at least five individual session, and get the inner insight,
that one would like to apply this kind of sessions for others. To get these sessions, you have to come to
Berlin, Germany. Emotional Clearing
is simple and easy to understand. The
most beneficial part is the idea, to give sessions in return with other
EmC-guides. Once one knows how to give
sessions, one doesn`t need to pay for further sessions, one just
exchanges them with others. In this
way, there is no limit to solve problems, get more and more insights
into the real nature of one`s mind and psyche.
4.
Basic principles of EmC. In
emotional clearing, the inner intelligencec of our mind is addressed
and starts to cooperate with us. This
inner intelligence has two special features: a)
it only opens up by itself. b) it only
operates from inside.
Both features make sure, that no outer
influence and manipulation is possible. Understanding
there two features of our mind, one can use our inner intelligence to
get any insight and solve any problem, without any struggle. Since or inner intelligence is a few million
times more intelligent and efficient than any intellect or scientist,
to understand and experience this intelligence is the most important
step for everyone. The EmC-guide is
trained in such a way, that it is guaranteed, that no outer influences
are disturbing the opening of our heart and mind. That
means, an EmC-guide never interprets, manipulates, confuses or pushes
in any direction.
Up
till now, there was no such tool like EmC. The
main aspect of EmC-sessions is, to re-experience earlier moments of
shock, pain or vulnarability, and to understand, why and how they
happened. With that experience and
insightm the former unwanted and dramatic situation reduces and changes
completely, giving rise to mew and more complete insights and
understandings. Sessions of EmC are
completely free of special psychological terms or therapeutic language. Everyone can feel and talk the way they
always talk and feel.
5.
Some cases.
This text on disabled children is very dear
and important to me. It was brought up
by a mother, whos fourth child was disabled after birth. She came into the EmC-training and said, she
would like to work with mothers and disabled children.
So in her
case, her husband flew away, after he realized, that this fourth child
was in that bad condition. Now she was
alone, with three children, and a fourth disabled one still in the
hospital ! In one session, this mother
could see, that there still was some kinf of magical pact between the
father and the child, that the child always had to bear certain
consequences. During that session, the
child mentally took this pact and contract and wrapped it up and threw
it into an ocean. The next day, this
child already could be nourished with normal food! Isn`t
that great !
Another
mother looked into the emotions of her daughter and could see the main misunderstanding between her and
her father. The father always said to
himself: When she is healthy, I can love her. The
daughter inside always thought: When he loves me, I can become healthy.
An adult,
disabeled man from a very rich family should move into a home for disabled young men to learn
some skills for a job. At home, he only
was sitting around and watching TV. In
a session, the new wive of his father (not his mother) looked into his
emotions and understood, that he would
defintely like to stay home. To be
save and accepted was the most important message from his emotions. This was some kind of equivalent for being
loved and cared about. Now sending him
into a foreign home for him meant, being no more loved and cared for. Since he missed his real mother after the
divorce of his parents, at least he
wanted to stay home and feel save there. When
he was accepted in this way, he could come out with remarcable
improvements on the mental level for himself.
6.
Contact.
You have disabled children yourself ? Or you
are working in this kind of setting ? You
want to get into contact with us ? Be
free to send any question or comment. email: diap
(at)
psychiatry (dot)
de | |